#134: Where You Are Right Now, is Exactly Where You Need to Be

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Changing The Story with Lana Dingwall

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The only way to become the person you’re excited and confident about is to embrace the person that you are today, at whatever stage of the journey you’re in.  We all go through our own journey and oftentimes, what helps us push through, is the community we surround ourselves with. Instead of looking at others as perfect or having everything together, it’s important to realize that we are all exactly where we need to be today on our journey towards our potential. It’s why I’m so passionate about building a community for those of us with service-based businesses who are giving, giving, giving… doing, doing, doing… but also need to stop and fill up our own cups. I’m hosting a free fireside chat this upcoming Wednesday where we will be diving into YOU, so that you can be supported personally and in your business with whatever it is you’re creating. Come as you are and where you are today. It’s exactly where you need to be. How this relates to this week’s episode is that often, we feel flawed because while we are able to see the qualities within ourselves that aren’t our favourite, we only see the perfect qualities that others choose to show us of themselves. It leads us into thinking that other people have perfect businesses and are self-made, which makes us put immense pressure on ourselves to “get our shit together”. Owning who you are today, and letting others fill your cup while you fill theirs is what shows us that none of us are self-made. We are all a byproduct of the communities around us. But when we choose to project that we are self made, we are projecting from a house built of cards. We are desperate and anxious to try and keep it standing. It’s wildly egotistical, but it also just puts so much pressure on you to hold everything together without getting support. I am not self made and the entire notion of being self made is a fallacy.   On the episode, I cover: How to ground ourselves when we spiral into negative thoughts What to do when you start questioning your worth How our personal self and business self might carry different insecurities How to step into your power and out of your insecurities   Together we’ve got this and I hope to see you on Wednesday.   I believe in you.