Do you want to want sex? But when he initiates you turn it down? Maybe you want sex but not the type that’s on offer? You feel like you’ve disconnected from a huge part of yourself and all those ‘does he still love me’ thoughts come into play.. Life feels flat and you know how much deliciousness, aliveness and vibrancy it can offer you both in and out of the bedroom. Can’t figure out how to reignite that spark.. I’ve got you girl!

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EP29. LIBIDO BOOSTING!

Bitches! I'm back! Laura (a fellow sex and pleasure coach) and I dove into this juicy, juicy convo on all things sex, pleasure, boundaries and asserting yourself in every day life.  There are so many crossovers in the work we are currently focusing on so this ep just floooooowed baby.  Find Laura on Instagram HERE.  And find out more about her boundaries course (starting on the 27th July) HERE.  BOOM!! Enjoy xx 

Unlock Deep Pleasure And Assert Yourself With Grace And Ease - With Laura Ellen

Hey my loves, So you may remember I released a mini offering at the end of last year called "A Beautiful Existence" giving you inspiration and motivation to start your year in a state of abundance and pleasure. I just had a re-listen and you know what?! It's still 100% valid and every woman NEEDS to here this. So I'm releasing the 'audio teaching' section for FREE!  To join the waitlist for WER (Early bird opening 1st March) - https://astimaree.com/wild-essence-waitlist/ To get your hands on the practices I mention in this audio - https://astimaree.com/product/2020-a-beautiful-existence/ Enjoy ? xx

A Beautiful Existance - the only theme for 2020.

Hey loves. I’m so excited about this episode because although I no longer speak about stripping so much any more, it’s still a bit part of my life and as you’ll find out in this ep, it’s been a huge piece in my empowerment journey. I essentially decided to become a sexual empowerment coach to teach women all the wonderful things that stripping gave me, such as body confidence, freedom, self-expression, independence, worthiness, boundaries and the ability to create my own rules and not give a f**k what anyone else thinks. I’ve answered all of your questions that you sent in and covered topics such as.. ✨ How and why I started stripping. ✨ Tips for girls that want to start stripping. ✨ What stripping is NOT about dancing. ✨ What other women can learn from strippers. ✨ Jealousy. ✨ Everything stripping taught me. ✨ How it has affected relationships in the past. ✨ What my parents though. ✨ How I respond to people negativity around it (there actually isn’t any). ✨ How Stevie is pretty much the best human and the world and although the stigma has never had a problem with it. ✨ How I handle dancing for ‘unattractive’ customers. ✨ The most money I’ve made. ✨ Some funny stories. ✨ Why strip clubs are something that should be celebrated by society. ✨ Why I’m still stripping even while I’m coaching - $$$ Enjoy queens. And if you want to unleash you inner stripper (slut archetype soul) join us here - www.astimaree.com/the-pleasure-portal/

EP39. My Not So Secret Stripper Life.

Amy Rushworth is one of my favs to follow on Instagram.  She’s constantly showing up with so much wisdom, power and beauty! And recently, I had the absolute pleasure to interview her. In this episode we dive into everything you need to know when it comes to igniting your inner fire and tapping into confidence during tough times. We covered.. ✨Some of the reasons why women lose confidence in themselves. ✨ At which time in a woman’s life is it common to lose confidence. ✨ Tips for regaining confidence. ✨ Offering yourself a sense of love and worthiness. ✨ Why many women are not finding a true sense of contentment in their lives. ✨ Find wholeness within instead of looking out side of yourself. ✨ Knowing your strengths and stop comparing yourself to others. ✨ Training yourself to think and focus on the positive. ✨ Doing what you REALLY want to be doing in life rather than what you think is going to impress people. ✨ How learning to use your voice and speak your truth is a huge piece in regaining your confidence. ✨ The history of feminine oppression and how that impacts us today. ✨ How regaining your confidence in day to day life will make you more confident in sex and vice versa. Instagram www.amyrushworth.com

EP38. Igniting Your Inner Fire And Tapping Into Confidence with Amy Rushworth.

I'm sure you've been told to work first and reward yourself later. You're probably still living out your life refrained by this old narrative. Well, I want you to scratch that. It's time to start making pleasure a priority.  When you start with pleasure you allow yourself to enter work in a pleasure state that will bring more productivity, joy and abundance to your hustle.  In this episode, I'm speaking with the incredible Julia Wells who is living proof that it pays to priorities pleasure. She shares with us some of her hottest tips and tricks to build, run and succeed in a pussy and pleasure based business.  We cover: - What does it mean to run a pussy based business. - How tapping into pussy can revolutionise the way you do business. - Some of our personal pleasure building, non negotiables. - How sexuality work supports business growth and success. - Why our world needs more feminine embodied leader.  - Key ingredients for epic launches (that involve travel, day spas, buying flowers, basically all the good stuff). - How can women who aren’t necessarily businesses owners or entrepreneurs can use this (pussy power) method to bring more joy to their days. Enjoy xx Find Julia on Instagram Join Asti's group coaching programme (Early bird ends soon) - The Pleasure Portal  

EP37. What It Means To Run A Pussy Based Biz - With Julia Wells.

The number one thing holding women back from greatness is the thought “but what will people think?” This lesson is essential for expressing your ultimate truth and power. Every step forward you open yourself up to more criticism. So you’ve got to back that power with the fierceness of having zero fucks. Overcome the fear of rejection and criticism and you can tackle anything! I cover.. ??How I handle comments like ‘you’ve got shit tits’ or ‘you’re so immature and have no idea what you’re talking about’ LOL LOL LOL LOL ??Difference between constructive criticism and non-constructive criticism. ??How hurt people only hurt hurt people (yes read that twice) because when you’re secure within your insecurities you’re too much work to bring down. ??Someone's comments will only hurt you if you believe there is some truth in their statements. ??The number one way to overcome criticism is to accept yourself! ??Why getting defensive or having the need to prove yourself isn’t empowering. Don’t add fuel to the fire. Stop leaking precious energy into low vibe people, redirect it towards something that will serve you. ??Someone will only hurt you when their commitment to judgement is stronger than your commitment to love. ??Why the only people who will ever criticise you are people who are doing less than you (so basically their comments aren’t invalid anyway). ??Some non-defensive come-backs that will allow you to shut down nasty comments and move on with your life within moments without getting pulled into their bs. Enjoy! xx

How to be fierce in the face of other peoples criticism..

I'm back with something juicy! ?? (for real this time). I want to dive into the topic of squirting, or female ejaculation.  "How to Squirt" is my most watched videos on Youtube with over 1mil views so it's obviously a popular topic of conversation. There are a tonne of comments and questions below it which I haven't had the time to reply to, so I thought I would create a poddy to answer them all in one sitting. The most common questions or statements are.. "Is it pee" AND "what have you studied to prove this?" So dive into this episode to find out.. If it's pee or not (hint: it's not).  What science now knows about this sexy phenomenon. Can all women squirt?  What is feels like to squirt plus some of the emotional and spiritual benefits.  Enjoy my loves! And here is the link for more info if you're interested in injecting more pleasure into sex and life! Join us in the next round of my group coaching programme - www.astimaree.com/the-pleasure-portal/

The Science Of Squirting

Comfortable In My Skin.  Join me in this juicy conversation with Ellie, the founder of the 'Comfortable In My Skin' movement.  Body confidence is a HOT topic at the moment, but what about vulva confidence!? We are all taught in one way or another that our vulva are shameful, simply for having one! In this convo Ellie and I bring to light all the questions you wonder about but are too afraid to ask.. and we clear up the dreaded thought of.. "Am I normal down-there?" This is a convo you do not want to miss! As we cover in this episode, body confidence is so much more than feeling comfortable in your skin, it's about thriving in sex, love, relationships, biz and life!! Find Ellie and join the movement -  www.comfortableinmyskin.com.au  www.instagram.com/comfortableinmyskin_ For more information on The Pleasure Portal - www.astimaree.com/the-pleasure-portal/

The 'Comfortable In My Skin' movement

This episode is all about YOUR INNER CHILD! For those of you who are not familiar with the inner child.. The inner child is the concept that the child version of yourself still lives within you as a sub-personality.  This sub-personality is still very much alive, and apart of you. She still carries around with her all of the limiting beliefs and narrative that she picked up and created as a child. So even if there is something that you really want to achieve as an adult, if she received any negative or mixed messages around it as a child (e.g. sexuality) she'll hold you back from going there as a way to project you. She is the cause of most of your resistance and most of your fear.  When you are not aware of your inner child it's almost though all of your past fears become current. Any triggers of not feeling loved or good enough can bring you back to childhood. She ends up controlling your life and what you will or will not do and also what you're capable of achieving.  To break free from her narratives that are low key running your life from behind the scenes and to create new ones that are in alignment with your soul truth and original essence is so powerful. It allows you to create new narratives and beliefs that support the life you are trying to create for yourself.  There are 3 steps: Recognising she is a sub personality. Welcome her in. Giving her new narratives. Setting boundaries with her.  Tune in as I explain a really powerful practice you can do yourself today to essentially go back in time and rewrite your narratives so you can unravel the web of lies and conditioning and reverse all of the pain and suffering they caused you, so you can step into your power! If you want to dive deeper with this and unlock a life of total pleasure THE PLEASURE PORTAL ROUND 2 is starting Oct 20th - Click below for more info http://astimaree.com/the-pleasure-portal/

EP33. Creating Your Own Narratives And Beliefs So You Can Create The Life Of Your Dreams.

So you want to recover your sexual essence? And it makes sense when you’re chasing this to straight away focus on embodiment, self pleasure and tapping into your sexual essence…  But there is one thing that is more important... Tune in to find out the most powerful support in my sexual empowerment journey that provided the most radical and rapid coming home into my innate sexual essence.

EP32. A Shortcut To Sexual Freedom.

Ok loves, let’s talk about orgasmic living, the power of orgasm and how it can transform your life far beyond what happens in the bedroom..  because sexual energy is so much bigger than sex itself.. How we show up in sex is how we show up in life and vice versa. Incredible sex makes you feel incredible and allows you to do incredible things and attract incredible things..

EP31. How Tapping Into Your Orgasmic Power Is Your Greatest Resource & Key To Living Your Best Life.

How to tap into higher peaks of pleasure and ultimately more explosive, intense, mind altering and reality shifting orgasms.. Or even have your first orgasm.  This is important.. because if you’re not feeling pleasure during sex, you’re not going to desire it much longer, then you’ll stop having it all together and you’ll begin to loose connection to yourself, your partner and the magic in the world around you.

EP30. Three Sexual Pleasure & Orgasm Enhancing Hacks (That Actually Work).

When you send wisely and purchase luxury items that make your personal spaces feel sexy it raises your vibe and makes YOU feel sexy!  You end up feeling more abundant and so the $$ spent on the luxury item(s) becomes a true investment.. It starts that upwards spiral of feeling good, and doing good, attracting good. But there is a catch..  To jump on that upwards spiral these purchases must be soul driven, high vibe purchases!

EP28. Luxury Investments And Soul Driven Purchases

Samantha is a mindset and wellbeing coach, the founder of The Core Health and creator of The Modern Mindful Program. In this episode we dove into a convo around healthy emotional awareness and modern confidence. If you feel like your non-stop jumping from task to task all say long and never get a minute to breath, this is for you!

? EP27. Modern Mindfulness With Samantha Flook.

Welcome to Sex, Sass and Soul, hosted by Female Sexual Empowerment Coach - Asti Maree. This podcast is dedicated to inspiring women to step into the most desirable and magnificent version of themselves in sex, love, relationships and life!