When you don't want to be polyamorous anymore and you're considering therapy to convert yourself back. That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - What is the biggest lesson you’ve learned from previous relationships? Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com!  More about Non-Monogamy Help: Read the column Subscribe to the newsletter Become a patron Follow us on Twitter Email nonmonogamyhelp@gmail.com with your question.

Non-Monogamy Help

Episode 51 - Conversion Therapy

How much is too much to know about your partner’s other relationships? Where is the line? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - Do you believe in first impressions? Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com!  More about Non-Monogamy Help: Read the column Subscribe to the newsletter Become a patron Follow us on Twitter Email nonmonogamyhelp@gmail.com with your question.

Episode 55 - How Much is Too Much

When you're trying your best with polyamory but it feels like if you don't get it right, you may get divorced. That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - Should you sacrifice for your relationship? What is worth sacrificing? Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com!  More about Non-Monogamy Help: Read the column Subscribe to the newsletter Become a patron Follow us on Twitter Email nonmonogamyhelp@gmail.com with your question.    

Episode 54 - Sacrificing Too Much

You have a metamour who thinks someone you're dating is a bad person. What do you do?  That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - What do you think about forgiveness? When should one be forgiven? Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com!  More about Non-Monogamy Help: Read the column Subscribe to the newsletter Become a patron Follow us on Twitter Email nonmonogamyhelp@gmail.com with your question.  

Episode 53 - Forgiving Mistakes

Anxiety that's so overwhelming can make you feel like non-monogamy isn't for you at the time. That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - What is your ideal living situation? With or without partners? How would you organise your space? Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com!  More about Non-Monogamy Help: Read the column Subscribe to the newsletter Become a patron Follow us on Twitter Email nonmonogamyhelp@gmail.com with your question.

Episode 52 - Anxious After Marriage

Your partner expects you to commit to monogamy eventually but you're not sure if you've ever been in love. That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - If you were to get a job offer in another country, how would your relationships change? Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com!  More about Non-Monogamy Help: Read the column Subscribe to the newsletter Become a patron Follow us on Twitter Email nonmonogamyhelp@gmail.com with your question.

Episode 50 - What Is Love?

A partner comes to you asking if you'd consider monogamy and then changes their mind later on, but you're still stuck on wanting it. What do you do? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - What is the one behaviour you do not tolerate? Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com!  More about Non-Monogamy Help: Read the column Subscribe to the newsletter Become a patron Follow us on Twitter Email nonmonogamyhelp@gmail.com with your question.

Episode 49 - Wanting Monogamy

Is 18 months enough time to give someone to decide if they want polyamory?  That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on Patreon. Discussion Topic - What's your love language? Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com!  More about Non-Monogamy Help: Read the column Subscribe to the newsletter Become a patron Follow us on Twitter Email nonmonogamyhelp@gmail.com with your question.

Episode 48 - Too Much NRE

Should you judge a guy who says that all men want a harem of submissive women? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on Patreon. Discussion Topic - If you could create your ideal p*rn, what would it look like? Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com!  More about Non-Monogamy Help: Read the column Subscribe to the newsletter Become a patron Follow us on Twitter Email nonmonogamyhelp@gmail.com with your question.

Episode 47 - Harem Boy

How worried should you be about STI risk as an immunocompromised person? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on Patreon. Discussion Topic - Why do you think your parents are the way they are? What were the pressures and difficulties they were under? Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com!  More about Non-Monogamy Help: Read the column Subscribe to the newsletter Become a patron Follow us on Twitter Email nonmonogamyhelp@gmail.com with your question.

Episode 46 - STI Risks

What resources are available for someone who asks about dating a sex worker? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on Patreon. Discussion Topic - What do you blame your parents for? Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com!  More about Non-Monogamy Help: Read the column Subscribe to the newsletter Become a patron Follow us on Twitter Email nonmonogamyhelp@gmail.com with your question.

Episode 46 - Sex Work and Polyamory

What happens when you struggle to find partners but your domestic partner does not?  That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on Patreon. Discussion Topic - What often impairs your decision making process? Lack of confidence, impatience desire to please, overexcitement… Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com!  More about Non-Monogamy Help: Read the column Subscribe to the newsletter Become a patron Follow us on Twitter Email nonmonogamyhelp@gmail.com with your question.

Episode 44 - You Don't Need 5 Partners

What happens when our biggest fear is losing our current relationship? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on Patreon. Discussion Topic - In your worst fears, what might your colleagues at work be criticising you for behind your back? Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com!  More about Non-Monogamy Help: Read the column Subscribe to the newsletter Become a patron Follow us on Twitter Email nonmonogamyhelp@gmail.com with your question.

Episode 43 - What if It Ends?

When you've conceded to many rules but your partner demands you dump another, what do you do?  That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on Patreon. Discussion Topic - What do you most regret so far? Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com!  More about Non-Monogamy Help: Read the column Subscribe to the newsletter Become a patron Follow us on Twitter Email nonmonogamyhelp@gmail.com with your question.

Episode 42 - The Dreaded Veto

 In trying establish rules, does that make you less “ready” for non-monogamy or polyamory? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on Patreon. Discussion Topic - List the now guilt inducing occasions when you were especially mean to certain people. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com!  More about Non-Monogamy Help: Read the column Subscribe to the newsletter Become a patron Follow us on Twitter Email nonmonogamyhelp@gmail.com with your question.

Episode 41 - No Rules Just Wrong

Non-Monogamy Help is a relationship advice podcast for people in non-monogamous or polyamorous relationships. With the help of a therapist with over a decade of experience, your host Lola Phoenix, answers the questions your questions about rules, hierarchies, unicorns and more.