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Last week on Destined to Be, we described how happy couples approach arguments with the intention of finding a solution. But that’s easier said than done. When conflict arises in any relationship, emotions are heightened. And it’s easy to get caught up in your feelings and lose sight of what matters. So, how do you bring your best self to an argument and work together to solve the problem? On this episode of the podcast, we’re sharing five tips for having constructive arguments with your partner, explaining why WHAT you say is much less important than HOW you say it. We offer an advice on what to do when your emotions are getting the best of you, challenging you to acknowledge your partner’s feelings and develop the emotional intelligence to see their point of view. Listen in for insight on keeping your insecurities in check and learn how to give your partner the benefit of the doubt when you’re having a difficult conversation. Key Takeaways Our 5 tips for having constructive arguments with your partner Don’t run from conflict Watch your tone Keep your cool Acknowledge each other’s feelings Keep your insecurities in check How to start a difficult conversation in a respectful, calm way Why WHAT you say is less important than HOW you say it How to give yourself space and switch the focus when your emotions are getting the best of you The challenge of accepting another person’s truth How to develop the emotional intelligence to see someone else’s point of view Why it’s crucial to do your own research on stories in the news How to give your partner the benefit of the doubt (rather than assume the worst) Having the humility to admit when you’ve made an error in judgement Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory Destined to Be Podcast Destined to Be on Instagram Jeremiah on Instagram Mallory on Instagram Level Up Entourage Facebook Group Resources How Happy Couples Argue, Part 1 on Destined to Be EP104 Neuro-Linguistic Programming Kary B. Mullis OSHA