Miscellaneous
If we want to progress in our life, we have to confront our negative sides that are holding us back…For instance, I had a father who was an excellent musician… When I wanted to sing or make music, my father abused me for how bad I am …I could not sing in tune or keep up the rhythm or even memorize songs…The problem is that I can’t hear correctly what I sing… That problem has 10% of the population… When I was over 30 years old I learned Keyboard, Harmonium, Sitar, Tabla and even singing…Guess I had to fight like crazy against my demons, which were always discouraging me… What are 6 reasons that held us back?1.) we are slaves of our habits of what is familiar even it hurts us so much… Most of the women are living in an unhealthy relationship with a man… Their Attitude: Give me more sorrow to prevent me from being happy!2.) We attract and like what gives us pain… 80% of the raped women are going back to the same situation where they got raped…Because unconsciously we want to relive our traumas from our childhood or later… So we choose or manipulate our situations again and again so we experience our traumas… 3.) We have suppressed for a long time our negative feelings and don’t want them to surface… If we would change our life these suppressed traumas will surface. So we are scared to change our life. 4.) You don’t trust yourself. How can you change your life if you are scared to be wrong? Even if everything looks perfect, you assume to fail or to make a wrong choice…5.) You believe that you can not get more of what you love/like… Because you think the reasons are: the law of polarity or that you don’t deserve it.. Or your friends will leave you and sabotage you … (that might be even right!!!) So you limit yourself, not to go over your comfort zone …. 6.) Without your self-created problems, you can’t live. For instance, the kids leaving your home and you run in an identity crisis… Because then you don’t have your problems anymore and for what you should live? Instead, enjoy your life without caring and worrying for your kids… My Video: What holds us back? https://youtu.be/NRNKvff2vdcMy Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end. My Audio: https://rudizimmerer.s3-ap-southeast-1.amazonaws.com/6/What+hold+us+back.mp3