Welcome to On The Wet Coast, a blog & podcast about sexuality and ethical non-monogamy of every variety. We talk polyamory and swinging, monogamish and open relationships; from dirty, dirty sex to heartbreak. We share our personal experiences and philosophy, observations and theories, what works for us...and where we messed it right up.
The most common question I get when talking about expressing needs during sex is, "Doesn't it wreck the mood?" As infuriating as I find it, I know it'...
Our sex-negative culture pushes us to repress and feel shame about our sexuality or lifestyle. Stepping out of the shadows and telling your story beco...
One of the most exciting things about non-monogamy can be the novelty of new adventures and new people in our lives. At the same time, one of the many...
There's a certain art to crafting the right kind of message to convey what we're feeling via characters on a screen. Since so much of modern communica...
Accountability and Consent can feel like the least fun topics to discuss when it comes to sexy lifestyles but when we really focus on building these f...
It's always a bummer when dates don't go as planned or don't happen at all. There can be all kinds of reasons why things don't turn out as you'd hoped...
It's no secret that On The Wet Coast, we love our sex toys. Using those toys for strap-on sex is one of our favourite ways to engage with partners, or...
We're always told that confidence is sexy, but how do we find the confidence to be our true sexual selves? How do we embrace our bodies and our kinks ...
Finding your people can be one of the most important things you do as you make your way in the world, and when you find them, it feels like coming hom...
Figuring out how to express our interest in someone can be one of the most challenging things in dating, especially if we find them really attractive,...