Learn about the effects the "upside down parenting" of narcissists and other Hijackals can have on your adult life and relationships. Great insights t...
How Hijackals Succeed at Emotional Blackmail
Hijackals are good at emotional blackmail. They are experts at the "Gotcha!" And, they constantly use it to their advantage. Learn more about the comp...
Reading the Shifting Scary Eyes of Hijackals As They Try to Control You
Yes, Hijackal's eyes are not the windows to their souls as much as windows into their fears and desires to control. It's real. You're not imagining it...
Beware of Introjection & Projection!
You may not know these terms but you know the undercutting feeling one produces, and the scramble the other does! Very important to recognize and say ...
HOW TO KEEP A HIJACKAL FROM TEARING YOU DOWN
Hijackals--passive-aggressove. marcossostoc. amti-social folks--thrive on tearing you down. Sometimes, it's a slow picking at you. Sometimes, it's a c...
How Hijackals Confuse You Through Cognitive Empathy
Yet, it feels real, and you SO want it to be real. There's where the manipulation and confusion sets in. In this episode, I let you in on the secret t...
RECOGNIZING THE MANIPULATION OF TRIANGULATION
Clearly see how narcissistic people try to control information flow by going through other people, their desired "flying monkeys." Are there other peo...
HIJACKALS ARE BOUNDARY BULLDOZERS
Setting Boundaries. Calibrating Results. Making Decisions. No matter what the Hijackal thinks they are entitled to you need to set, express, and hold ...
QUELLING THE FEAR OF REJECTION...especially from narcissistic hijackals!
No one likes to be rejected. It's uncomfortable, painful, and a blow to the self-confidence and self-esteem. What can you do about it? How do you thin...
Are You Striving to Be Good Enough for a Narcissist?
Even perfection won't and can't cut it if you're in relationship with a Hijackal of any stripes. This episode will help you understand this cycle, how...