2020 Sex Trends with Susan Bratton Susan Bratton, Intimacy Wellness Expert Susan joins us again today to talk about predicted sex trends of 2020! Get ready to read the tea leaves and join us on a wild ride of figuring out what’s going to be hot this year!   What we talked about! Penetration orgasms Tanric sex Genital rejuvenation sexual regenerative treatments Purpose driven sex toys/promo code susan vfit joylux.com Funfactory-pulsator, hot octopus flacid masturbator pulse 2 duo tenuto, perinial massager Gender fluidity Senior sexuality Personalized poly Travel fucking Pre-sex STD testing Cannabis and entheogenic sex Shadow bans and mainstream censorship Fun Questions! When you go to another country and you want have a sexual fling what are your best pieces of advice? What is the best hotel for a 3 some? Where to find more about Susan Susan Bratton is the CEO of Personal Life MediaYouTube: Better LoverInstagram: @SusanBratton   Are you a professional in the mental health field? I'm the Sex Therapist for Therapists! My Professionals Support group is free to join, ask questions, and participate with other professionals like you. More info here: https://sextalkwitherika.com/professionals   Check out the book I’m reading this month!! An Open-Hearted Life by Russel Kolts   Support the podcast on Patreon Just click the image above to be taken to my Patreon page!   Find me on all the socials! Website: SexTalkwithErika.comInstagram: @erikamileytherapy + @sextalkwitherikamileyTwitter: @MrsErikaMileyFacebookYouTube

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2020 Sex Trends with Susan Bratton

Today Erika talks with the wonderful Jeff Abraham, badass CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, and we’re talking about premature ejaculation. Promescent is developed by urologists, recommended by thousands, used by millions.  Whether it’s premature ejaculation, a partner that’s slow to climax, or just the pride of endurance, everyone wants to last longer in bed.   What we talked about! What is Promescent? How does Promescent break down the stigma around premature ejaculation? How does Promescent work with a partner? How can we encourage more open conversations between partner so that they can use these kinds of products? Promescent has new products like condoms, amino acids, tell me all about em!   How to find more about Jeff and Absorbsion Pharmaceuticals https://www.promescent.com/   Check out the book I’m reading this month!! An Open-Hearted Life by Russel Kolts   Support the podcast on Patreon Patreon.com/SexTalkwithErikaMiley   Are you a professional in the mental health, medical, or educational fields? Check out my Professionals Support group! It’s free to join, ask questions, and participate in with other professionals like you, all interested or needing advice around sex! More info here: https://sextalkwitherika.com/professionals   Find me on all the socials! Instagram: @erikamileytherapy + @sextalkwitherikamiley Twitter: @MrsErikaMiley Facebook YouTube SexTalkwithErika.com

Erectile Dysfunction with Promscent’s Jeff Abraham

 Erika brings back Abbie Rolf to talk about why the words we use to describe each other, our genitals, and much more have a lot of meaning. We talk about how the Trans community is especially affected by the evolution in language around sexuality. Let’s talk about common words around genitalia!   What we talked about Why does it matter? What are some examples of terms used in the trans community? Pronouns – They, He, She are commonly used to distinguish the gender that someone identifies themselves as. Partner – Someone with whom you engage in sexual activity. Gender neutral folks do use genitals. Euphemisms are based on stigma and discomfort around discussing sex and the body. Common euphemisms for genitals Why is it important to find out what your partner(s) uses? Comfort, communication, consent. Common examples of genital names transgender folks use Front or Bonus Hole Peen or Penis, dicklet, click Some people may be comfortable with anatomical terms consistent with their SAAB (Sex Assigned at Birth), some may be comfortable with anatomical terms from other SAAB, some folks may use a euphemism or another word.  Books or Resources Mentioned in the Episode Abbie’s practice (Healing Village Therapy) SAAB (Sex Assigned at Birth)PFLAG (Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays)GLAAD  (Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation)S. Bear BergmanTrans-Education Facebook Group Check out the book I’m reading this month!! An Open-Hearted Life by Russel Kolts Support the podcast on Patreon Every donation helps to edit the podcast, pay for hosting, and help me expand to offer more content! Click the image above to go to my Patreon page.   Are you a professional in the mental health, medical, or educational fields? Check out my Professionals Support group! It’s free to join, ask questions, and participate in with other professionals like you, all interested or needing advice around sex! More info here: https://sextalkwitherika.com/professionals   Find me on all the socials!   Instagram @erikamileytherapy  + @sextalkwitherikamileyTwitter @MrsErikaMileyFacebookYouTubesextalkwitherika.com 

Gender and Why Words Matter with Abbie Rolf

Denise Wiesner, author, acupuncturist who specializes in fertility in addition to being a sex coach.  Has sex become work because you are trying to get pregnant?  Have you struggled to see your partner as anything other than a baby maker?  Yo it’s a real issue for many folks who struggle to have babies. Learn all about the art of infertility treatment and how to come back to pleasure and connection with your partners.     Questions tackled:  -Tell me a little be about your own story?!  It is so incredibly touching and wonderfully honest!   -Biology lesson is first folks and important for you to understand in the face of the fear tactics of sex education in the United States.   -Ritual creation?? Tell me how that is important during the process of fertility?  -Can you talk about our first precious treasure Jing and how we talk about it in western culture which is epigenetics?    Much of your perspective focuses on the art of fertility, often the medical side leaves this to the wayside.  What is the value in connecting with the art of fertility?  How to find Denise in the world:  Denisewiesner.com  @denisewiesnerlac insta        Find me on all the socials!   Instagram @erikamileytherapy  + @sextalkwitherikamileyTwitter @MrsErikaMileyFacebook.com/sextalkwitherikamiley https://www.youtube.com/user/MrsErikaMiley erikamiley.com erika@erikamiley.com  

Conceiving With Love With Denise Wiesner

Janet Bayramyan is a licensed therapist specializes in trauma, relationship, and sex therapy  In Janet’s workbook she helps you tackle the many issues that arise in long distance relationships.  Erika and Janet talk about the challenges and benefits in a long-distance relationships in addition to how to handle conflict.  They also talk about how sex can be a barrier and requires creativity to enjoy physical intimacy.     Questions tackled:  What are the benefits and challenges of long distance relationships?  How do you learn how to deal with conflict in these relationship types?  How do you have sex when you are in a long distance relationship?  How do you know if someone is cheating or not?  How to find Janet and the workbook:  www.road2wellness.co   @therapy_with_janetb  (insta)  Workbook: The Long Distance Relationship Survival Guide  https://www.suzihalajyan.com/shop/long-distance-relationships-survival-guide-workbook-1        Find me on all the socials!   Instagram @erikamileytherapy  + @sextalkwitherikamileyTwitter @MrsErikaMileyFacebook.com/sextalkwitherikamiley https://www.youtube.com/user/MrsErikaMiley erikamiley.com erika@erikamiley.com  

The Long-Distance Relationship Survival Guide with Janet Bayramyan

Thanks to Jessica Cline, psychotherapist specializing in sex therapy and financial therapy to being willing to be on the show and understand how relationships, sex, and money are some of the biggest issues’ relationships face. Jessica unravels the details of the money and sex issues many of her clients’ face.  She talked openly about how sex and money are often the two topics many people have issues that begin before the people were in relationship together.  She also addressed how sex and money intersect during infidelity.      Here are the questions we tackled:  What are some of the most common issues that come up with your clients around money and sex?  You were on the infidelity panel episode and something you mentioned was the feelings of betrayal due to the financial issues that arise during infidelity.  Could you expand on those issues?  Jessica serves the following states:  Serves Wisconsin, Florida, Hawaii, and soon Georgia.   Clinecounseling.com  Jesscline.com     The books Jessica suggested:  The Millionaire Next Door  Boggle Heads  Financial Intimacy  Women and Money  The Soul of Money  Barbara Stanning        Find me on all the socials!   Instagram @erikamileytherapy  + @sextalkwitherikamileyTwitter @MrsErikaMileyFacebook.com/sextalkwitherikamiley https://www.youtube.com/user/MrsErikaMiley erikamiley.com erika@erikamiley.com  

Money and Sex with Jessica Cline

Infidelity is one of the most common reasons people in relationship come to therapy. So, Erika decided to put together a whole panel of experts to tell you about the common themes, issues, people face while dealing with the issue of infidelity. Cheating is defined by the people experiencing it often, so this panel tackle the bigger picture of cheating and loads of other issues we see with our clients.   Questions we address: Why do happy people cheat? What is the definition of  infidelity? How can a relationship tackle infidelity before it happens? What are common themes you see in session? What do you wish people knew before they went into a relationship? What do you and your unique therapeutic approach bring to therapy about infidelity? How does culture and history impact how we see our relationships?   How to find these wonderful therapists: Shane Birkel- https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/ https://shanebirkel.com/   Valerie Allen www.valallencounseling.com    Heather Garner http://garneringchange.net/home/   Jessica Cline https://clinecounseling.com/ jessica@clinecouneling.com       Find me on all the socials!   Instagram @erikamileytherapy  + @sextalkwitherikamileyTwitter @MrsErikaMileyFacebook.com/sextalkwitherikamiley https://www.youtube.com/user/MrsErikaMiley erikamiley.com erika@erikamiley.com  

Infidelity Panel

This episode is all about the new segment called Ask Erika.  Erika is joined by return guest Dr. Sarah Schvitz, who is a love and relationships psychologist.  Erika and Dr. Sarah tackle all sorts of common questions that they receive and give you the advice you are looking for.     Here are some of the questions addressed:  Why does my vagina sweat - am I a freak?  Why does my vagina smell like onions after I eat them?  Relationship questions:  What actually matters when we are dating?   How do I find the right person?  Why do I have to go on so many dates to find a person?  Should we be together?    If you are looking for Dr. Sarah here are the ways you can find her:  @coupleslearn (insta)  drsarah@coupleslearn.com (email)  https://coupleslearn.com/            Find me on all the socials!   Instagram @erikamileytherapy  + @sextalkwitherikamileyTwitter @MrsErikaMileyFacebook.com/sextalkwitherikamiley https://www.youtube.com/user/MrsErikaMiley erikamiley.com erika@erikamiley.com  

Ask Erika with Dr. Sarah Schewitz

Dr. Ari Tuckman is back for another episode!  Erika and Ari tackle how to have tough conversations about sex with your partner or even in therapy!  Erika also introduces a new segment called Ask Erika.  Erika and Ari talk about how these conversations can bring up shame and embarrassment.  They also explore the recent story about the rapper T.I. and his crossing his daughter’s boundaries by asking about her hymen during an OBGYN appointment.  Do not miss this episode.    Here are the questions we talk about:   This episode is directed at therapists having these conversations with clients and to clients having these conversations within their relationships!     Conversations about sex are hard!!  How do we start these conversations?    In the face of fear of hard conversations… especially today in our current political climate where people essentially yell their opinions at each other how do we tackle the physiological response while having these conversations?  How you find Dr. Ari Tuckman in the world:  www.adultadhdbook.com    The episode he was on before this one:  https://erikamiley.com/thepodcast/81         Find me on all the socials!   Instagram @erikamileytherapy  + @sextalkwitherikamileyTwitter @MrsErikaMileyFacebook.com/sextalkwitherikamiley https://www.youtube.com/user/MrsErikaMiley erikamiley.com erika@erikamiley.com  

Sex Conversations Are Hard! With Dr. Ari Tuckman

I work with a lot of female identified folks.  Your work around sex and context informs that work a lot.  As you have been writing, researching, podcasting, what are your thoughts around how context matters for female identified folks now?    Feminism and 2020?  Tell me a little about how science can help reduce stress?   Feminist informed care for people??  What wellness really is?  How do people find you in the world?    https://www.feministsurvivalproject.com/  emilynagoski.com   @fsp2020 ista         Find me on all the socials!   Instagram @erikamileytherapy  + @sextalkwitherikamileyTwitter @MrsErikaMileyFacebook.com/sextalkwitherikamiley https://www.youtube.com/user/MrsErikaMiley erikamiley.com erika@erikamiley.com  

Sex, Context, and Feminism with Emily Nagoski, PhD

Erika talks with Susan Bratton who is the trusted hot sex advisor to millions.  Erika and Susan tackle all sorts of modern-day sex trends from cultural beliefs to current toys.      Here are the questions tackled:  You seem to understand how we are an entire system, which my listeners know I am saying all the damn time.  How is sexual vitality part of a healthy lifestyle generally?  How would you say people’s impression of sex and sexuality has changed since the tech boom?  Have the rules of intimacy changed because of the internet?    What are your thoughts around the “sexual recession”?     How to find Susan in the world:  https://susanbratton.com/  @susanbratton Insta  Thrustintime.com (free ebook)  Betterlover.com         Find me on all the socials!   Instagram @erikamileytherapy  + @sextalkwitherikamileyTwitter @MrsErikaMileyFacebook.com/sextalkwitherikamiley https://www.youtube.com/user/MrsErikaMiley erikamiley.com erika@erikamiley.com  

Modern Day Sex Trends With Susan Bratton Trusted Hot Sex Advisor To Millions

They/Them/Theirs    Abby Rolf, mental health therapist specializing in transgender knowledgeable and inclusive care.    Language is gendered    https://www.healingvillagetherapy.com  https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/abbie-rolf-they-them-largo-fl/461019  practicewithpronouns.com  mypronouns.org        Find me on all the socials!   Instagram @erikamileytherapy  + @sextalkwitherikamileyTwitter @MrsErikaMileyFacebook.com/sextalkwitherikamiley https://www.youtube.com/user/MrsErikaMiley erikamiley.com erika@erikamiley.com  

Gender Language and How to Do Better with Abby Rolf

The world has issues around sex.  The issues are more common than you would think. Erika talks with Cyndi Darnell, international sex and relationship therapist.  Cyndi has moved from Australia to the United States and explored the commonalities and differences between the countries and issues with sex and relationships.   How to find Cyndi:  https://cyndidarnell.com  https://cyndidarnell.com/online-sex-courses/       Find me on all the socials!   Instagram @erikamileytherapy  + @sextalkwitherikamileyTwitter @MrsErikaMileyFacebook.com/sextalkwitherikamiley https://www.youtube.com/user/MrsErikaMiley erikamiley.com erika@erikamiley.com  

Sex Issues Across the World with Cyndi Darnell 

Often in relationships we are not talking about how mental health issues are impacting our sex lives and relationships.  In this episode Erika talks with Dr. Ari Tuckman, psychologist, author, certified sex therapist, and ADHD expert about how relationships are impacted by ADHD.      What you will hear:  How typical relationship issues are amped up by ADHD and how couples, or any other relationship configuration can manage it.  What research has said about how sex is impacted or not by medication.  Relationships have common issues that are not unique to ADHD!  How to find Ari:  Adultadhdbook.com  Tuckmanpsych.com  http://adultadhdbook.com/adhd-relationship-book/      Find me on all the socials!   Instagram @erikamileytherapy  + @sextalkwitherikamileyTwitter @sextalkwitherikamileyFacebook.com/sextalkwitherikamiley https://www.youtube.com/user/MrsErikaMiley erikamiley.com erika@erikamiley.com  

ADHD After Dark with Dr. Ari Tuckman 

During the month of October, it is breast cancer awareness month.  To spread awareness Erika talks with Brandie Sellers,  a Nationally Certified Counselor based in North Texas.  She works with people around cancer and sexuality.  In addition to working with people deconstructing religion as well.    Questions talked about:  Would you be okay to tell us your story?  What does cancer and sexuality have in common?  What role do you believe shame plays for people who have been through a chronic illness and sex?  What is common experience of individuals with medical professionals around sex after diagnosis?  If someone is out there listening who is on this journey, what do you want them to know?    Products referenced:  https://sliquid.com/shop/  https://goodcleanlove.com    BrandieDSellers@gmail.com  @brandie.sellers on IG  https://www.therapyden.com/therapist/brandie-sellers-allen-tx  http://www.ichoosechange.com/brandie_sellers/    Find me on all the socials!   Instagram @erikamileytherapy  + @sextalkwitherikamileyTwitter @sextalkwitherikamileyFacebook.com/sextalkwitherikamiley https://www.youtube.com/user/MrsErikaMiley erikamiley.com erika@erikamiley.com  

80. Cancer And Sex

All things sex all the time! Erika explores the different facets of sex from everyday experiences to what science experts say about Sex! Let's do this!

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Sex Talk with Erika Miley

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