August 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Snoopy wife caught husbandIs orgasming the same as cumming?Is OMGYes okay?Ejaculate colour and consistencyEncouraging senior sexWife won’t “finish” oral sexWife searched for pornBirth control for ChristiansWife’s smellWhat sexual behaviour is prohibitedZoloft and PE updateMultiple wives - againThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life. Recently updated with new sections! Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Christian Married Sex ConferenceBecoming More Sexually Engaged - for Christian WivesBirth control options for ChristiansZoloft and PE original questionWhen did God stop allowing multiple wives?Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference!Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review.  They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage.  You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective

SWM 078 – August 2021 Questions – Catching spouses with porn, birth control, Zoloft and PE and more

July 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:How do I hide my BDSM toys when I live at home with my parents?Does God value boys more than girls based on Leviticus 12:2-5?How do you handle the hormones from PCOS when you have a low-drive husband?Is it okay to fantasize about my fiancee?This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life. Recently updated with new sections! Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Sex Noises SurveyChristian Married Sex ConferenceBecoming More Sexually Engaged - for Christian WivesFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference!Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review.  They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage.  You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

SWM 077 – July 2021 Questions – Dealing with PCOS, fantasizing about your fiancee and more

June 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:How to improve a boring sex lifeWhy only ED during sex?Meds for Premature EjaculationRisky public sexShould I talk to my doctor if I have ED?Fantasizing about premarital sexTurned on by my wife urinatingWife with no interest in sexIs breastplay required for a good marriage?This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life. We just updated it! Get it free this month when you become a new $5+/month supporter.  Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Sex Noises SurveyIntimacy Ignited - Song of Solomon Bible StudyPromescent - Premature Ejaculation SprayEpisode 68 - Discussion of the morality of public sexWhy marriage ruins sexIntroduction to talking dirtyWhere did my sex drive go? - Free ebookWhy are men obsessed with breasts?Don't put your hope in magic pillsMelt - Couples massage classesFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference, and also a free copy of Our Sexploration List this month!Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review.  They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage.  You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

SWM 076 – June 2021 Questions – Boring sex lives, ED and PE troubles and breast play

May 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:How we look at sexWhy we have refractory periodsWhether or not it’s common for a husband to have to ask his wife if she had an orgasmA husband who is secretly purchasing toysA widow who wants to know what happened to her husband who was crematedThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life.  Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Melt - CouplesMassageCourses.com - 20% off for Fathers' DayWhy you should take a couples massage class25% off in our shop for Father's Day - use coupon code FATHERSDAYA day of sexAbout the corpus callosum (why men are single minded)Why do some women's legs shake when they orgasm?Keep Your Love On - Danny SilkBoundaries in Marriage - Henry Cloud and John TownsendIs it okay to engage in pegging in a marriage?Survey Results - Christians, anal sex and anal playWhat happens when you die?Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review.  They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage.  You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

SWM 075 – May 2021 Questions – How we look at sex, refractory periods, asking about orgasms and more

April 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Friends touching me inappropriatelyPostpartum recovery from the husband’s perspectiveHusband is anxious about sexNot attracted to my husband anymoreHusband doesn’t like oral sexHow to get over husband’s porn useNarcissistic husband and adulterous wifeThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life.  Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:SWM 067 – Infatuation, New Relationship Energy, and LoveFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review.  They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage.  You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

SWM 074 – Apr 2021 Questions – Friends who grope, postpartum recovery, anxious husbands and more

Is a sexual activity wrong if it was learned from a sinful source? Check out the show notes here for more details and links.The question we're answering today is:My wife and I have a very active sex life. We enjoy a nice variety of activities and positions. Our frequency is definitely on the higher side, so I really have no complaints.We have used porn, either separately or together, for much of our relationship and are working on that issue. I understand the problems with that and the implications. That is not what this is about. Many of the things we do sexually have been learned and implemented from watching or reading porn. We have discovered many very enjoyable activities from that area of our lives together.So, here is the question. Does a sexual activity become wrong or sinful if it was introduced from a sinful source? I feel that as long as the activity involves a man and woman married to each other, that activity becomes blessed in the marriage bed. I know others who don't feel the same way. My wife is not completely sure. I'm just wondering what your thoughts are. This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life without having to engage in fantasies like this. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

Is a sexual activity wrong if it was learned from a sinful source?

March 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Is any part of porn ok?Is it unreasonable to expect sex after oral?Are humans meant to be non-monogamous?Is it okay to teach kids to masturbate safely?Wife doesn't enjoy sex but says she wants to be promiscuousThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life.  Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Solo masturbation is a problem whether you are married or singleFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference and new supporters in January get our Truth or Dare printable free.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review.  They help others know this is a good resource to help with with their marriage.  You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

SWM 072 – Mar 2021 Questions – Should humans be non-monogamous and more

Are sexual fantasies okay for Christians? Does it matter what the fantasy is? If it's only in your mind, does that make it okay? Check out the show notes here for more details and links.The question we're answering today is:My wife and I have had a reasonably active sex life for most of our relationship. There have been ups and downs of course, but for the most part, we really have no complaints that way.One part of that sex life that has been around since very early on is fantasy. We both, me somewhat more than her, enjoy and get very aroused by telling each other different fantasies. The ones that are the most effective and "fun" are ones that involve other people, and even more, same-sex activity. She gets extremely aroused and has very intense orgasms when I tell her about me having sex with another man, vice versa when she tells me about having sex with another woman. Neither of these has ever actually happened, it's strictly fantasy, and neither of us actually has a desire to fulfill these fantasies, but they continue to be part of our sex life. I don't feel guilt or shame about this at all as I feel it's only in the fantasy realm. She is all over the map. Sometimes she feels intense guilt and shame, sometimes she is ok with it. Sometimes, she tries hard to not go there, and other times she asks me to take her there. It's quite confusing for both of us.I just want to get some feedback and perspective on this in an open, Christian forum. I'm quite certain that we are not the only couple that has this "problem" if you would call it that. Thanks.This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life without having to engage in fantasies like this. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here's the post I mentioned during the podcast:Your definition of gross changes when you're aroused.Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

SWM 071 – Is it okay for Christians to have sexual fantasies?

February 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Semi-public sexSquirtingLow drive wifeFell asleep during sexWife doesn't like physical contactWhat is pornographicPoophole loopholeThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Is it okay to engage in pegging in a marriageOur Sexploration ListSpice JarLast month's podcastFemale ejaculation/squirting/gushing survey resultsHow can I stop gushing?How to make yourself squirt during sexWhere did my sex drive go?Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference and new supporters in January get our Truth or Dare printable free.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

SWM 070 – Feb 2021 Questions – Semi-public sex, squirting, falling asleep during sex and more

Is it okay to remarry after divorce? Check out the show notes here for more details and all the verses.What does Matthew 5:32 mean when it says:But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery. - Matthew 5:32 NKJVIs it as clear-cut as it seems? I don't think so, and in this episode, I'll dig into why based on what the rest of the Bible has to say about the topic.Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd join the discussion of upcoming blog posts, podcast episodes, product launches and other events, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions who faithfully donate! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

SWM 069 – Is it okay to remarry after being divorced?

January 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Is nudism a sin?Is exhibitionism okay?Does Romans 13:14 say you shouldn't plan for sex?Wife won't get help for traumaHow do I start an ANR?How do I be a respectful wife when my husband is watching porn?Is male lingerie okay?Doggy style is too deepOpposite sleep schedules affecting sexThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Adult Nursing RelationshipsThe Bumper Deep Trust CushionFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference and new supporters in January get our Truth or Dare printable free.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

SWM 068 – Jan 2020 Questions – Nudists, exhibitionism, male lingerie, pet play, ANR and more

SWM 067 - Infatuation, New Relationship Energy, and Love. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, I thought I'd take the opportunity to some of the various neuro-chemicals involved in new relationships, why we don't feel the same after we've been married for a while, all while answering a reader's question about why he doesn't feel attracted to his wife.Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference and new supporters in January get our Truth or Dare printable free.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

SWM 067 – Infatuation, New Relationship Energy, and Love

December 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Legs shaking during oral sexWife changed after separationFeeling drained after oral sexBirth controlCock worshipGo see a doctor if you are worried about your healthThis month our most popular resource is our Truth or Dare printable. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Truth or Dare - Free Online VersionTruth or Dare - Printable VersionBirth Control Options for ChristiansFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference and new supporters in January get our Truth or Dare printable free.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

SWM 066 – Dec 2020 Questions – Shaking legs, wife changed after separation, birth control and more

November 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Managing a high sex driveLosing erections while changing positionsBeing too loud during sexHusband thinks his wife is sexually boringVaginismusHow do you surrender and give God control in your life?This month our most popular resource is Intimacy Advent Calendar. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Dr. Jessica McCleese - Christian Sex TherapistAmazon - ball gagSpice JarSexy MemoryWhat do you do if sex is painful?Our Sexploration ListWomanizerLELO Sona CruzeMagic WandFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

SWM 065 – Nov 2020 Questions – High sex drives, losing erections, being too loud, vaginismus and more

October 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:The MotorbunnyWhere is the eye candy for women?Body odourRemarriageHating Doggy StyleNaggingThis month our most popular resource is Intimacy Advent Calendar. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Sermon - It's all worth itWhy masturbation is a problem whether you're married or singleHousehold leadership according to the BibleFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, or leave us a review. Ratings and reviews help others know this is a good resource to help with with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

SWM 064 – Oct 2020 Questions – Body odour, remarriage, doggy style sex and more

Answering questions about married sexuality and intimacy

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