For Season 3 Episode 17 “What Goes Around Comes Around” I chatted with David Chambers, a dating coach and host of The Authentic Man Podcast on self-sabotage and relationship karma for Carrie’s question: “I wondered does a string of bad dates equal one good one? And will treating someone badly in one relationship ensure you’ll be treated badly in the next? Does everything that goes around really come back around? And if so, will it come around to bite you in the ass? Is there such a thing as relationship karma?” Topics include:  Why we self-sabotage How to identify self-sabotage If you are actually the problem How your past shapes your present Coincidence or the universe sending a sign Follow David and The Authentic Man Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Book a session with David: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sextnthecity/ //  https://www.instagram.com/samnthacity/   

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S3 E17: Is It Karma? Or Are You the Real Problem?

In this episode, I connected with Caroline Brown of The Crazy Over 40s Life Podcast to wonder over Carrie’s question, “If you stay single long enough you’re supposed to get wiser about dating - what men to pick, where to meet them. But what really made any of us experts? Wasn’t our single status a neon sign that we couldn’t get it right? What if all these years in New York have only made us older, more confused or dead?  Are we getting wiser or just older?” Topics include:  Why we really want men with money How men look at you differently once you’re married Does dating get easier or harder with getting older and wiser Friendship Follow Caroline at https://www.instagram.com/thecrazyover40slifepodcast/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sextnthecity/ //  https://www.instagram.com/samnthacity/

S3 E16: Why We Really Want a Man With Money

For Season 3 Episode 15 “Hot Child in the City” I chatted with Kendra of the Crushgasm podcast on middle school insecurities and age appropriateness while wondering: “In today’s youth-obsessed culture are the women of my generation growing into mature responsible adults, or are we 34 going on 13?”  Topics include:  What makes you an adult Kids these days Why the SATC characters make us feel immature Nostalgia having a moment Follow Kendra and the Crushgasm Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/crushgasmpodcast/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sextnthecity/ //  https://www.instagram.com/samnthacity/ 

S3 E 15: How Much $$$ for You to Relive Middle School?

For Season 3 Episode 14 “Sex and Another City,” I connected with Disha of the podcast But What Will People Say Podcast to talk about FAKES. And social media. Because it’s really relevant for Carrie’s question:  “When it comes to bags, men and cities, is it really what’s outside that counts?” Topics include:  The dangers of social media Judging a book by its cover Portraying a life we don’t have Validating your relationship online   Follow Disha and the But What Will People Say Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/disha.mazepa/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sextnthecity/ //  https://www.instagram.com/samnthacity/   

Your Knockoff Bag is Just Like Social Media

For Season 3 Episode 13 “Escape from NY” I talked with Layla, host of The Curious Girl Diaries, about Carrie’s concern that:  “I couldn’t help but wonder, no matter how far you travel or how much you run from it, can you ever really escape your past?” Topics include:  Time heals all wounds? Putting people in boxes Loving each other equally   Leave Layla a voicemail: https://www.thecuriousgirldiaries.com/  Follow The Curious Girl Diaries: https://www.instagram.com/the_curiousgirldiaries/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sextnthecity/ //  https://www.instagram.com/samnthacity/ 

S3 E13: Running in Place

For Season 3 Episode 12 “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” I spoke with  Em of the Sexistentialist podcast on radical honesty in relationships. We tackle Carrie’s question of:  “I started thinking about honesty. Maybe the whole idea was overrated maybe coming clean is the ultimate selfish act to absolve yourself by hurting someone who doesn’t deserve to be hurt. In a relationship is honesty really the best policy?” Topics include:  Emotional vs physical cheating Gender roles, media & infidelity Communication issues Radical vs selfish honesty Follow Em and the Sexistentialist Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/sexistentialistpod/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sextnthecity/ //  https://www.instagram.com/samnthacity/

S3 E12: On Honesty From Two Cheaters (& Who Were Cheated On)

For Season 3 Episode 11 “Running with Scissors,” Nicole and Sarah and The Homance Chronicles weigh in on CHEATING and Carrie’s question of the episode: “Later that night I got to thinking about safe sex, odd how only when our physical life is at risk do we follow certain guidelines to protect ourselves. But what about our emotional lives? Wouldn’t it be nice if there was a little pamphlet to warn us what unsafe behavior might be “high risk” or ourselves or our relationships? And even if you take all the precautions and emotionally try to protect yourself, when you crawl in bed with someone, is sex ever safe?” Topics include:  Why people cheat The other woman Listening to doubt Fantasy versus reality Physical health vs emotional health Follow Nicole and Sarah and The Homance Chronicles: https://www.instagram.com/homance_chronicles/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sextnthecity/ //  https://www.instagram.com/samnthacity/ 

S3 E11: How to Catch a Cheater

For Season 3 Episode 10 “All or Nothing,” I chat with Shawn from The Tough Titties Podcast about tough life choices. We attempt to answer Carrie’s wonderings on: “Is it possible that we’ve gotten so spoiled by choices that we’ve become unable to make one? That a part of us knows that once you choose something, one man, one great apartment, one amazing job, another option goes away. Are we a generation of women who can’t choose just one from Column A? Did we have too much to handle or was Samantha right, can we have it all?” Topics include:  Having it all vs having someone to share it with Why wanting a partner isn’t enough The problem with dating apps Settling vs compromise Going back to an ex   Follow Shawn and The Tough Titties Podcast:   - https://www.instagram.com/thetoughtittiespodcast/  - https://twitter.com/toughtittiespod - https://www.tiktok.com/@shawn_jacobson Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sextnthecity/ //  https://www.instagram.com/samnthacity/ 

S3 E10: Can we have it all...but only if we settle?

 I connected with Audree Kate Lopez, of Audree Kate Studios and Simply Audree Kate, to chat Season 3, Episode 9, "Easy Come, Easy Go" of Sex and the City. We talked about: Running into exes Living with your ex The head versus the heart Trying to always fix things A tactic to getting what you want You can follow Audree at @simplyaudreekate and SimplyAudreeKate.com 

S3 E9: Your house is not my house.

 For season 3, episode 8 "The Big Time," I chatted with Kelly of the lifestyle blog Mimosas and Manhattan. For this episode we talked about: Biological time clocks How men are like cabs Getting back with exes Timing is the only thing that matters Having a baby to fix your relationship You can follow Kelly on Instagram at @courtandkelly and check out the latest on the blog at mimosasmanhattan.com Follow the podcast at @sextnthecity and @samnthacity 

S3 E8: Tick Tock goes the clock

 This week for Season 3 episode 7 "Drama Queens," I caught up with Jordan Scott, founder of the couple's website idk tonight and app Cobble, to talk all about: Relationship ruts Dating as a business Does a relationship need drama Drama versus chemistry Sign up for idk tonight's newsletter here https://idktonight.com/ Download Cobble now on the app store here https://apple.co/35IcrIn You can also follow on IG for date night ideas @idktonight Follow the podcast BTS at @sextnthecity and @smanthacity 

S3 E7: Should dating feel like a Shakespeare play?

 In Season 3 Episode 6 Carrie wonders, "are we sluts?" Me and one of my friends wonder the same thing and discuss: Is romance dead Physical vs emotional connections Slut-shaming Dirty talk How well do you know the person in your bed Follow on IG @sextnthecity and @samnthacity 

S3 E6: What's your number?

Sext and the City is a podcast on modern dating by Samantha Jones. In each episode, she interviews a guest where they take on a question Carrie asked on Sex and the City 20 years ago and how it applies to relationships today.