Have you ever told a friend or family member that you're polyamorous and they spit back some misconception or myth they heard about what that means? Maybe you're newly interested in this lifestyle and have come across some of these myths in your online reading. However you stumbled across these we thought we would give our take on them. And if you've got a story to share with us about a polyam myth, please shoot us a text or email because we want to hear it! Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" or "subscribe" button and leaving us a 5 star rating and review on whatever platform you listen on. It really helps new listeners find us. If you want some more of Bella and Monsuta head over to our Patreon page for bonus episodes and to join our Polyam Fam Facebook group! And of course you can reach out to us all over social media! For additional episodes and content, come join our Patreon! Follow our Facebook page called Polyamory: Get Your Heart On. Find the link to our episode and share your comments about the show. Our Instagram is @TalkYourPolyOff. For the kinkier polyamorists, cum join our TYPO Kinkster Fetlife Group Also, check out our Twitter, @TalkYourPolyOff. You can also hit up our website and bookmark it so you can watch us as we grow. ;) Finally, As mentioned a moment ago, we welcome listener input, feel free to send us an email with your thoughts at talkyourpolyoff@gmail.com or Text us or leave us a voicemail! TYPO Phone (209) 536-TYPO (8976)

Talk Your Poly Off

Misconceptions of Polyamory

Self sabotage is the topic this week and it's something we've probably all experienced at some point, even if we weren't aware of it in the moment. Why do we do it? How can we stop doing it? We cover all that and more! If you're enjoying the show please share it with a friend! Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" or "subscribe" button and leaving us a 5 star rating and review on whatever platform you listen on. It really helps new listeners find us. If you want some more of Bella and Monsuta head over to our Patreon page for bonus episodes and to join our Polyam Fam Facebook group! And of course you can reach out to us all over social media! For additional episodes and content, come join our Patreon! Follow our Facebook page called Polyamory: Get Your Heart On. Find the link to our episode and share your comments about the show. Our Instagram is @TalkYourPolyOff. For the kinkier polyamorists, cum join our TYPO Kinkster Fetlife Group Also, check out our Twitter, @TalkYourPolyOff. You can also hit up our website and bookmark it so you can watch us as we grow. ;) Finally, As mentioned a moment ago, we welcome listener input, feel free to send us an email with your thoughts at talkyourpolyoff@gmail.com or Text us or leave us a voicemail! TYPO Phone (209) 536-TYPO (8976)

Self Sabotage

Well it's been quite the week over here in TYPO land. Monsuta lost his job and Bella is wrapping up her first week on her preop liquid diet! There's a lot going on and this week we discuss how to support your partner(s) during the big and small changes that happen in life. How to show support and how to ask for support all while plans could change in an instant. Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" or "subscribe" button and leaving us a 5 star rating and review on whatever platform you listen on. It really helps new listeners find us. If you want some more of Bella and Monsuta head over to our Patreon page for bonus episodes and to join our Polyam Fam Facebook group! And of course you can reach out to us all over social media! For additional episodes and content, come join our Patreon! Follow our Facebook page called Polyamory: Get Your Heart On. Find the link to our episode and share your comments about the show. Our Instagram is @TalkYourPolyOff. For the kinkier polyamorists, cum join our TYPO Kinkster Fetlife Group Also, check out our Twitter, @TalkYourPolyOff. You can also hit up our website and bookmark it so you can watch us as we grow. ;) Finally, As mentioned a moment ago, we welcome listener input, feel free to send us an email with your thoughts at talkyourpolyoff@gmail.com or Text us or leave us a voicemail! TYPO Phone (209) 536-TYPO (8976)

Life Changes & Support in Polyamory

We tackle a little Q & A from the listeners today all centered around your partner spending time with their other partners. How do you spend your alone time? How do you handle intimacy or a meta's privacy? Do you have questions you want our help with? Leave us a voicemail or text us at (209) 536-8976! Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" or "subscribe" button and leaving us a 5 star rating and review on whatever platform you listen on. It really helps new listeners find us. If you want some more of Bella and Monsuta head over to our Patreon page for bonus episodes and to join our Polyam Fam Facebook group! And of course you can reach out to us all over social media! For additional episodes and content, come join our Patreon! Follow our Facebook page called Polyamory: Get Your Heart On. Find the link to our episode and share your comments about the show. Our Instagram is @TalkYourPolyOff. For the kinkier polyamorists, cum join our TYPO Kinkster Fetlife Group Also, check out our Twitter, @TalkYourPolyOff. You can also hit up our website and bookmark it so you can watch us as we grow. ;) Finally, As mentioned a moment ago, we welcome listener input, feel free to send us an email with your thoughts at talkyourpolyoff@gmail.com or Text us or leave us a voicemail! TYPO Phone (209) 536-TYPO (8976)

TYPO Phone Questions Part 2

Ear ducks, dating, gaming and miniatures and a little light hearted chat this week with Monsuta and Bella! You never know where you'll end up with this episode. Join us for some much needed laughs and awkward dating questions as we step back from the heavy personal development theme for a moment. Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" or "subscribe" button and leaving us a 5 star rating and review on whatever platform you listen on. It really helps new listeners find us. If you want some more of Bella and Monsuta head over to our Patreon page for bonus episodes and to join our Polyam Fam Facebook group! And of course you can reach out to us all over social media! For additional episodes and content, come join our Patreon! Follow our Facebook page called Polyamory: Get Your Heart On. Find the link to our episode and share your comments about the show. Our Instagram is @TalkYourPolyOff. For the kinkier polyamorists, cum join our TYPO Kinkster Fetlife Group Also, check out our Twitter, @TalkYourPolyOff. You can also hit up our website and bookmark it so you can watch us as we grow. ;) Finally, As mentioned a moment ago, we welcome listener input, feel free to send us an email with your thoughts at talkyourpolyoff@gmail.com or Text us or leave us a voicemail! TYPO Phone (209) 536-TYPO (8976)

Bella's Ear Ducks and Dating

Have you ever sat back and were really mindful about how your body physically feels your emotions? Thought work has become a huge part of our daily lives over the last year or so and we wanted to take this opportunity to talk a little bit about how your thoughts create your feelings which cause an action which give you a result leading to your beliefs. It's an endless circle and we go into all of it! Let's say you understand this cycle and now it's time to actually process through some of those feelings you're having. It's a difficult thing to do, pause and take time to really understand what you're feeling and why. Hopefully what we are talking about hits home for some of you! Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" or "subscribe" button and leaving us a 5 star rating and review on whatever platform you listen on. It really helps new listeners find us. If you want some more of Bella and Monsuta head over to our Patreon page for bonus episodes and to join our Polyam Fam Facebook group! And of course you can reach out to us all over social media! For additional episodes and content, come join our Patreon! Follow our Facebook page called Polyamory: Get Your Heart On. Find the link to our episode and share your comments about the show. Our Instagram is @TalkYourPolyOff. For the kinkier polyamorists, cum join our TYPO Kinkster Fetlife Group Also, check out our Twitter, @TalkYourPolyOff. You can also hit up our website and bookmark it so you can watch us as we grow. ;) Finally, As mentioned a moment ago, we welcome listener input, feel free to send us an email with your thoughts at talkyourpolyoff@gmail.com or Text us or leave us a voicemail! TYPO Phone (209) 536-TYPO (8976)

Personal Development Part 6: Thoughts, Emotions, & Processing Them All

If you've been around the polyam community for any length of time you've heard people say "communication is key" or "you wont be successful without communication". Well there's more to it than just communicating and that includes actually understanding and processing what your partner is telling you. They can tell you all day long what they want or need but you need to be able to comprehend the message being sent to you. In this weeks episode we cover just that! Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" or "subscribe" button and leaving us a 5 star rating and review on whatever platform you listen on. It really helps new listeners find us. If you want some more of Bella and Monsuta head over to our Patreon page for bonus episodes and to join our Polyam Fam Facebook group! And of course you can reach out to us all over social media! For additional episodes and content, come join our Patreon! Follow our Facebook page called Polyamory: Get Your Heart On. Find the link to our episode and share your comments about the show. Our Instagram is @TalkYourPolyOff. For the kinkier polyamorists, cum join our TYPO Kinkster Fetlife Group Also, check out our Twitter, @TalkYourPolyOff. You can also hit up our website and bookmark it so you can watch us as we grow. ;) Finally, As mentioned a moment ago, we welcome listener input, feel free to send us an email with your thoughts at talkyourpolyoff@gmail.com or Text us or leave us a voicemail! TYPO Phone (209) 536-TYPO (8976)

The Mirror: Communication and Comprehension

Welcome to our B&B episode! No, not bed and breakfast....baggage and boundaries! If you're a human adult, you've got baggage! Join the club, it's nothing to hide or be ashamed of and actually the more open and honest you can be about your history and baggage the more likely your partner is to understand you and where you come from. In this episode we give our advice on how to use that past baggage to help you create healthy boundaries. Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" or "subscribe" button and leaving us a 5 star rating and review on whatever platform you listen on. It really helps new listeners find us. If you want some more of Bella and Monsuta head over to our Patreon page for bonus episodes and to join our Polyam Fam Facebook group! And of course you can reach out to us all over social media! For additional episodes and content, come join our Patreon! Follow our Facebook page called Polyamory: Get Your Heart On. Find the link to our episode and share your comments about the show. Our Instagram is @TalkYourPolyOff. For the kinkier polyamorists, cum join our TYPO Kinkster Fetlife Group Also, check out our Twitter, @TalkYourPolyOff. You can also hit up our website and bookmark it so you can watch us as we grow. ;) Finally, As mentioned a moment ago, we welcome listener input, feel free to send us an email with your thoughts at talkyourpolyoff@gmail.com or Text us or leave us a voicemail! TYPO Phone (209) 536-TYPO (8976)

Baggage and Boundaries

Have you ever sat down and reflected internally to really examine what your wants and needs are when it comes to relationships? Sure we understand a need as necessary for survival and a want is just an enhancement but how does that relate to relationships? Bella and Monsuta talk about just that for this special episode that just so happens to release on our 4 year anniversary! (Please ignore the sound of the washer in the audio, we didn't realize that would come through in the audio but, well vibrations...) Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" or "subscribe" button and leaving us a 5 star rating and review on whatever platform you listen on. It really helps new listeners find us. If you want some more of Bella and Monsuta head over to our Patreon page for bonus episodes and to join our Polyam Fam Facebook group! And of course you can reach out to us all over social media! For additional episodes and content, come join our Patreon! We also started a YouTube channel. Follow our Facebook page called Polyamory: Get Your Heart On. Find the link to our episode and share your comments about the show. Our Instagram is @TalkYourPolyOff. For the kinkier polyamorists, cum join our TYPO Kinkster Fetlife Group Also, check out our Twitter, @TalkYourPolyOff. We even have a Tumblr. You can also hit up our website and bookmark it so you can watch us as we grow. ;) Finally, As mentioned a moment ago, we welcome listener input, feel free to send us an email with your thoughts at talkyourpolyoff@gmail.com or Text us or leave us a voicemail! TYPO Phone (209) 536-TYPO (8976)

Wants & Needs in Relationships

Continuing this season of personal development we jump into a conversation around ego, the good and bad! Do you have some experience with your ego getting in the way? Tell us about it, give us some feedback, or reach out and say hi! Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" or "subscribe" button and leaving us a 5 star rating and review on whatever platform you listen on. It really helps new listeners find us. If you want some more of Bella and Monsuta head over to our Patreon page for bonus episodes and to join our Polyam Fam Facebook group! And of course you can reach out to us all over social media! For additional episodes and content, come join us on social media! Follow our Facebook page called Polyamory: Get Your Heart On. Find the link to our episode and share your comments about the show. Our Instagram is @TalkYourPolyOff. You can also hit up our website and bookmark it so you can watch us as we grow. ;) Finally, As mentioned a moment ago, we welcome listener input, feel free to send us an email with your thoughts at talkyourpolyoff@gmail.com Text us or leave us a voicemail! TYPO Phone (209) 536-TYPO (8976)

Ego, Esteem, and Instinct

Our season of personal development begins with a discussion around figuring out who you are! What is your self identity? Where do you even start to have that internal conversation? Hopefully whats worked for us can help you too, give us some feedback or reach out and say hi! Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" or "subscribe" button and leaving us a 5 star rating and review on whatever platform you listen on. It really helps new listeners find us. If you want some more of Bella and Monsuta head over to our Patreon page for bonus episodes and to join our Polyam Fam Facebook group! And of course you can reach out to us all over social media! For additional episodes and content, come join us on social media! Follow our Facebook page called Polyamory: Get Your Heart On. Find the link to our episode and share your comments about the show. Our Instagram is @TalkYourPolyOff. You can also hit up our website and bookmark it so you can watch us as we grow. ;) Finally, As mentioned a moment ago, we welcome listener input, feel free to send us an email with your thoughts at talkyourpolyoff@gmail.com Text us or leave us a voicemail! TYPO Phone (209) 536-TYPO (8976)

Self Improvement: Learning Your Gold Talk

Coming up on the end of January 2021 Monsuta and Bella took some time to really plan out some goals. After the year we just survived its tough to imagine planning out anything for this unknown future. But they aren't about to let that fear of the unknown cause life to pause. They don't want to lose another year of life ... so with that said instead of planning out events and bucket list travel vacations, they turned inward and wrote out some more personal goals that will help each of them come out of 2021 a better and stronger and healthier person. Tune into this episode to hear a great conversation around planning 2021 goals!

Planning For Success

Bella and Monsuta race to the TYPO Phone to answer distress calls! Listen in as these caped crusaders rush to aid others!

TYPO Phone Questions Part 1

What a strange and crazy year 2020 has been but we survived. Along the way we made some changes in our lives, we helped out some people in need, built stronger closer bonds with family, and found ourselves binge watching some interesting tv shows. In our first podcast episode of 2021 we get into a bit of catch up and discuss how life has been going for us over this past year. Looking forward into the next few episodes while we shake off the dust and get back into the swing of things we will discuss what we’ve been up to, what our future goals are for this next year and we even setup the….wait for it….TYPO PHONE! (Hears batman music in my head now!) 2021 is going to bring a new way of podcasting for us, we are going to break down our episodes into seasons beginning with our personal development season because we believe that in order to be successful in any relationship you’ve first got to have a better understanding of yourself. So cheers and happy new year and we look forward to hearing from you! Call us and leave a voicemail or shoot us a text! Happy stories, questions, or even just sharing how you met your partners. Whatever you want to share and let us know if you want it shared on the show! Reach us on the TYPO Phone at (209) 536-TYPO (8976). Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" or "subscribe" button and leaving us a 5 star rating and review on whatever platform you listen on. It really helps new listeners find us. If you want some more of Bella and Monsuta head over to our Patreon page for bonus episodes and to join our Polyam Fam Facebook group! And of course you can reach out to us all over social media! For additional episodes and content, come join us on social media! Follow our Facebook page called Polyamory: Get Your Heart On. Find the link to our episode and share your comments about the show. Our Instagram is @TalkYourPolyOff. You can also hit up our website and bookmark it so you can watch us as we grow. ;) Finally, As mentioned a moment ago, we welcome listener input, feel free to send us an email with your thoughts at podcast@ilovepoly.org

Goodbye 2020 Hello 2021

Monsuta and Bella take a moment for a candid reflection and conversation about life.

Leading into 2021

In this podcast we will explore many aspects of Polyamory and ethical non-monogamy while sharing our relationship adventures and the knowledge/experiences of our guests. We are recording from the beautiful Pacific Northwest and enjoy sharing and discussing this loving lifestyle.