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Today's guest is Eva Oh, an international, professional dominatrix. She runs her slave training with carefully crafted courses that reveal who she is and how she wants her slaves to serve her. She also organizes something called #teakink, where she talks with BDSM community members to demystify BDSM and sexuality through the intimacy of tea ceremony. I don't know much about domination or the BDSM community, so I was really looking forward to our meeting, and I was very grateful to be able to talk with Eva. She is a cheerful and lovely person, and she did a great job of leading me through the mysteries of the BDSM world. I intended to focus on consent and pushing boundaries within BDSM practice, but naturally, we covered some other topics like work during the pandemic and her overcoming self-doubt. 00:03:30 - start and intro00:05:40 - Growing up in a Christian and a female-dominated environment 00:13:50 - First sexual experience 00:15:30 - First contact with pornographic images/film00:20:45 - Work in pandemic time00:25:55 - Lifestyle vs Professional Dominatrix 00:27:40 - Consent and boundaries in domination (lifestyle part)00:34:50 - The typical day of work 00:37:30 - Difference between sub and slave 00:40:10 - Slave position - what is it?00:41:50 - What slaves learn during the training on youwillpleaseme.com / BDSM identities discovery 00:45:04 - Physical vs psychological punishment00:48:25 - Crossing boundaries in corporal punishment, where to draw the line. 00:55:50 - Recruitment of slaves 01:00:55 - Financial domination 01:07:45 - Eva explains how she cares for her mental health in this emotionally demanding work01:09:45 - Things that a professional dominatrix never does01:11:40 - Kinks and fetishes that Eva enjoys the most01:19:15 - Overcoming self-doubt 01:22:45 - Tips for couples who would like to start practising dom and sub relationship01:22:50 - Recommendations for any woman who would like to start working as a dominatrix Support the show (http://redcheeks.org/support/)