Arts
Welcome back to another episode. I can’t wait to share my interview with painter Mary Sundstrom.As you’ll hear in her bio, Mary's work is derived from nature, but that’s only part of the picture. Mary’s work has a strong surrealist edge that carries a psychological layer shat shimmers just beneath the surface. The result is mesmerizing.Before we get to the bio, I want to put some of our conversation into perspective.When we talk about studio space, I mention that I have an enormous, light-filled studio in our dream home. It is important to give you perspective here. When I say dream home, I’m not talking about wealth. I'm talking about having the space I’ve always wanted — and needed — to live and create.We are far from wealthy at this time, but I want to someday be wealthy. I don’t believe people shouldn’t want that, especially artists. Let’s all move away from the starving artist paradigm. As Abe Lincoln pointed out, "You can’t help the poor by being one of them."In working toward financial health, it is important at any stage in life to manage debt and live below your means, if possible, to be able to have the freedom from stress over survival — as much as we can control on our end, anyway.As it happens, I’ve been married for 20 years, so when I say my husband gave me the biggest room in the house with huge windows, I believe it helps you to know that it took me a long time to get there. In addition, we chose to move to a modest, amazing town in the midwest where the cost of living was much lower than California where we met. This was to support our values of being near family and of being able to afford a home large enough to have an extra room for a studio.When I had no extra room, I painted in shared basements of rental houses, attics, garages, on 4 x 8 foot balconies, and even at my mom’s house, driving over evenings to get my work done. Even when I was tired. I was always glad I did.Likewise when I say I have gym equipment. I’ve been collecting a piece at a time for 20 years. I buy used equipment, but it’s second hand from fitness facilities. It’s important because there were times in my life when I didn’t have the room for equipment. So I took it outside and I went running. Even in the winter with yak traks on my shoes. Now I love to run more than any other exercise, but my knees no longer love it. Without running, I happen to know that for me working out at home is my happy place, and the most likely scenario for consistency. Now I have no excuses. And though it may look like I love to work out, the truth is I love how it clears my head and gets me focused. I don’t always want to do it, but I’m always glad I did.See the theme here?I am not making excuses for the life I’ve created thus far. I’m actually doing the opposite. I’m suggesting that you take a very honest look at your life and try to figure out where you may be letting excuses get in your way.There are seasons in life where we don’t have the ability to create (or exercise for that matter), due to an unforgivable schedule or a health issue. Those are real things and I don’t pretend they aren’t. So I’m not saying paint the Mona Lisa while working three jobs or recovering from a stroke, as I had to last year. In those cases, do the best you can with what you’ve got and be kind to yourself along the way.The rest of the time, in your "everyday life," remember that time is your most valuable resource. I am suggesting that if you take it very, very seriously and come up with a list of ways you can get where you want to go, much of the time I think you can find the road.Mary tosses out so many gems of wisdom during the interview, I think you’ll love it as much as I did. Go to passionatepainterpodcast.com to see images of Mary's work, read her bio, and get her contact information.