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Have you ever wanted something so bad that you went above and beyond yourself and you still weren't able to make your goals a reality? For the past two years this is exactly where I've been in business. It's also the place I've visited when I was trying to have another baby last year. We all have those moments. I'm sure you know this feeling of "I need this to happen already!" It's this emotion when you feel desperation, frustration, disappointment and a tiny pinch of expectation all the same time. This feeling shows up in any area of our lives, whether that's in your job showing itself as "I need that raise" or "Can they finally acknowledge my work?", in your relationship as "I can't live without him/her" or "I want him to love me", in your business as "I need this to work already!" or "I want o make sales already", in your parenting as "I want this baby!" or "I need you to listen to me!". It's frustrating as hell being in that state, because you're showing up, putting in the work and yet nothing happens. But have you noticed that whatever it is you want in that moment is not working out when you stay in that state of neediness? Last weekend I received an important reminder about my own neediness when it comes to business. And the mindshift that it has created for me felt like the Mount Everest has been taken off my shoulders. So if you're sick and tired of things not working out the way you'd like them to, this episode is for you! Get ready for things to shift and let go of a tremendous heaviness you're probably carrying with you. This week I'm specifically talking about: The big difference between wanting a result vs. needing it and how it affects you Where your neediness comes from and why it's so toxic Why you need to become "ok" with the worst case scenario Ways to handle and shift your neediness so that your desires do come true