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Highlights05:05 Wrestling with your triggers is a daily endeavor08:01 The 5 Second Rule to count backwards and interrupt negative thoughts10:01 Breaking and replacing limiting beliefs starts with awareness of those beliefs15:12 The High 5 Habit breaks self-rejection, self-hatred and self-doubt21:39 People pleasing is a result of you not liking yourself27:06 Giving that High 5 brings people back into alignment with their spirit33:11 Comparison/jealousy/envy is desire blocked by insecurity39:41 Liberating affirmations prepare you for your time to shine45:53 Mel's professional journey: A lesson in preparation and perseverance52:06 Life as a mother: Deep care for feelings and empowering children 56:18 Overcoming depression by changing the way you treat yourself 1:05:23 Join the High 5 Challenge for free and experience hopeQuotes06:36 "You will always and forever have to catch yourself when your mind drifts to the negative. And the reason why that is true is because in your day-to-day life, there will always be things that trigger old patterns, always."08:36 "The counting backwards makes this part of your brain focus on the counting and the second that you get to one, you have a moment of control and that's where you can insert a different thought."16:21 "That habit of self rejection is what drives your need for validation externally. That habit of self rejection is why you think you're only worthy if somebody else says that you're worthy."29:42 "Meditation teaches you self awareness and it teaches you how to not react to thoughts. It doesn't change the default opinion that you have about yourself... And what I love about the high five habit and why this simple ritual is so divine and spiritual is because it is about reconnection with self."34:17 "Instead of everybody becoming somebody who's ahead of you in some race, what if the people that you were drawn toward that either it feels a little like jealousy or invalidation or comparison, what if you could flip it into curiosity and let it go, what is it about what they're doing that actually feels like it's calling me?"34:53 "Curiosity opens the door for your desire to flow through. Insecurity locks your desire in a cage and it eats you alive."1:10:10 "If you can use these tools to push through fear, and if you can use these tools to repair your relationship with yourself and to start believing in yourself again, you will be startled by the magic that happens in your life."To find out more and reach out to Mel Robbins, please see the following links:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins/Website - www.melrobbins.comWebsite (The High 5 Habit) - https://www.high5habit.com/Please leave a five-star review for the Get Loved Up Podcast. When you leave that review, please take a screenshot and email me at koya@koyawebb.com, and I’ve got a little gift for you.Your thoughts light up Koya’s soul, and it helps continue to bring on great guests.To hear more about Koya Webb and Get Loved Up episodes, please visit her website at https://koyawebb.com/.