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To all the divorce folks out there with married friends who just shower you with well-intentioned advice about dating (that you honestly don’t want to take), this episode is for you.   To the married folks out there whose friends have gotten divorced, please listen to this episode and spare yourself from sounding dense, hurtful, and even foolish.   This is another quick Just Jen episode, and I’ve rounded up a few reasons why married people shouldn’t give dating advice to their divorced friends. I also share quite a good list of what not to tell your divorced friends, so make sure you take notes. Please know that we love our married friends; we do, but please! You don’t know anything about what we’re going through, so just ssshhhh and just give us hugs.   Experience discreet shipping for all your sexual wellness needs. Get it from https://www.promescent.com/   Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!     Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright   You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.   Show notes: [2:30] Dear married couples, you don’t know what it’s like to go through a divorce [5:43] Dating is different after divorce—just listen and be there for your divorce friend [8:50] The things you’re saying or the advice you’re giving, they’re truly not helpful [9:15] The following are so hurtful, please think twice before saying this