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Is there a good time to use 'should', or is it always bad? Should is a word around which there is a lot of conflicting dogma; Dogma which can create a lot of mixed messages and confusion. Generally, in the personal development world, 'should' is considered bad and you're generally encouraged to stop should-ing all over yourself. Society generally champions the 'should' in the name of correctness, obligation and proof that you are worthy of being part of the clan. In my opinion, which I'll be sharing with you today, these mixed messages are very polarising. And the trouble with polarising (As we're seeing so much in the world today) is that a nuanced discussion is lost, we miss the positive aspects of different perspectives and lose the gift that each perspective could bring. In this episode we're going to take a nuanced look at the self directed 'should'. I'll offer you my perspective on The dark side of 'should' If you're suffering from it how to get free The often missed situation where is self-directed 'should' is good. My aim today is to help you find a place of more authentic self-love and kindness, free from inner harshness and miss placed judgement so you can feel more connected to who you really are. So hit that play button and let's jump in! SHOW NOTES: https://www.beabrillianthuman.com/blog/97 #SelfHelp #Podcast #Wellbeing The be a brilliant human podcast is categorised as a self improvement podcast on Apple iTunes and other platforms. It could as easily be called a self help podcast, a self love podcast and at times a relationship podcast. It's all about spiritual growth and how to be a brilliant human. Remember to SUBSCRIBE to this podcast to get more encouragement to BE A BRILLIANT HUMAN. And please leave a review! LEAVE ME A MESSAGE AT: http://anchor.fm/joelyoungnpa/message USEFUL LINKS RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE: NPA Mastery (certified practitioner programme): https://www.thenpaacademy.com/mastery In a relationship logjam? Join the challenge: https://www.thenpaacademy.com/loggerheadstoloverhearts The August Abundance Assembly https://www.thenpaacademy.com/abundance The Unconditional Pivot Exercise: https://www.beabrillianthuman.com/blog/27 Get The NPA Process for free at: http://www.NPA4.me/npasheet 1:1 Sessions with Joel: http://www.JoelYoungNPA.com/sessions Free ‘Be Kind To You’ eBook: http://www.NPA4.me/bekind2u Boundary Bootcamp: https://www.thenpaacademy.com/boundary-bootcamp Visit my website: http://www.JoelYoungNPA.com And for my courses: https://www.TheNPAacademy.com SOCIAL Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/joelyoungnpa Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/nparocks YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/joelyoung Instagram: http://www.Instagram/JoelYoungNPA --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joelyoungnpa/message