Warning ⚠️ My eyes got blurry with tears while preparing for this & my heart broke over & over as I recognized some things. I’m doing this for those of us who are confused as to why we act the way we do. Doing this for acceptance, love & healing. Childhood trauma, impact & ways to heal. Cheers xx --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/nigerianinmy20s/message

Don’t Touch My Kymah!

Dealing with Childhood Trauma

Hey there! Got my 2nd dose of the vaccine about a week ago & I documented my reactions to it. Plus, spilled a little tea about being a great friend and person in general. ⚠️⚠️ I WENT THROUGH VARIOUS EMOTIONS IN THIS EPISODE. It’s like the weirdest thing ever?✨✨ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/nigerianinmy20s/message

Covid vaccine reaction x Friendship 101

So you’re in your 20s yeah? Okay, so here’s 5 relatable dilemmas we all have faced at one point or the other & the “dark” choices we may have to make. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/nigerianinmy20s/message

Dilemmas x Choices

Aka Weray dey Disguise! Hey You, did you miss me? No? Ugh, never mind that. I’m here again with something that affects all of us regardless of gender. People that like you & pretend to be your friend instead of coming out straight. Listen, talk let’s know what exactly you want because pretending won’t get anywhere except earn you disdain & distrust from the person??‍♀️ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/nigerianinmy20s/message

Friendship in Disguise

On today’s episode, my friend Dayo takes over the reins of my podcast & I become the interviewee? I’d like to maintain that I SAID WHAT I SAID & that’s on P for Period❤️? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/nigerianinmy20s/message

Podcast Takeover with Dayo (01)

Yup...you read right. This is an episode about mangoes & the role genotype plays in relationships but yeah Mango? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/nigerianinmy20s/message

An Episode About Mango?

“Sugarbaby”, “Sugardaddy”, “Gigolo”, “Old Cargo”, “Gold Digger” etc are a part of the many words used to describe people in relationships with older or younger people. Should Age really matter in affairs of the heart? Does a huge age difference play a major role in relationships? Are the concerns of family & society grounded in some unspoken rule? Many questions I try to unpack in this episode... --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/nigerianinmy20s/message

Age Disparity in Relationships

This is me checking in & testing the mic I abandoned months ago. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/nigerianinmy20s/message

Check In + Random Ramble

Everyone has things they look out for in a partner before getting into a relationship but how about you shelve those & open yourself to other people in the dating pool?

Date Outside Your Spec!

It’s been a tough year, be nicer to people. There’s a lot that’s left unsaid & judging from outside is just plain wrong

Insensitive much?

Ever heard of the phrase “Love Language”??? Well, this is a beginners guide to this interesting concept & the important role it plays in relationships?

Love Languages 101

Pained? Heartbroken? Sad? Crying? Tired of the flashbacks? Don’t let the pain push you into becoming a bully on the internet. It may seem like a good idea but it is not. It takes you back on your healing journey, makes you look extremely foolish & incapable of emotional control.

Trolling Your Ex; Yay or Nay?

I called some of my friends to borrow me N50,000 ($129) & I died from their reactions?

Prank Call (Borrow me Money)

Just before you sign up to be taken fi idiat & cruise, here’s what you should think about *eyes wide open

Pre-Entanglement thoughts

That tweet you saw that annoyed you, do you need to react? Is it necessary to react?? Ask yourself. Why don’t you feel the need to protect your peace on social media? There are the “block” & “mute” buttons to sanitize your TL, so use them instead of engaging in meaningless word war with strangers! Also, forgive me for the mouth sounds? but the meat was giving me life, hence the inspiration to record. Love always, Kymah❤️?

Sho Necestry???// random ramble

Life experiences, Gists, Rants, Relationship Drama and Fun