Erika and Dr. Nazanin Moali decided to do a crossover Halloween episode for you!  They talk about 5 things to spookify your sex life!  You get to hear two very nerdy sex experts spend time talking about every body's favorite thing, sex!  Do not miss this one. For the full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/123Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon 

Sex Talk with Erika Miley

5 Tips to Spookify Your Sex Life ft. Dr. Nazanin Moali

Have you ever felt like all you are is a diagnosis?  This episode is for you, Erika talks with Dr. Melvin Lee Phillips, who specializes in sexual issues for those who deal with chronic illness.  In their conversation they tackle common misconceptions and how pleasure can be restorative when dealing with illness.  You can find Dr. Melvin Lee Phillips in these places:    www.drleephillips.com   Dr. Melvin Lee Phillips , Jr. Ed.D, LCSW, CSAC  Social:  @drleephillips  Insta and FB      Find me on all the socials!   Instagram @erikamileytherapy  + @sextalkwitherikamileyTwitter @sextalkwitherikamileyFacebook.com/sextalkwitherikamiley https://www.youtube.com/user/MrsErikaMiley erikamiley.com erika@erikamiley.com  

Chronic Illness and Sex

They/Them/Theirs    Abby Rolf, mental health therapist specializing in transgender knowledgeable and inclusive care.    Language is gendered    https://www.healingvillagetherapy.com  https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/abbie-rolf-they-them-largo-fl/461019  practicewithpronouns.com  mypronouns.org        Find me on all the socials!   Instagram @erikamileytherapy  + @sextalkwitherikamileyTwitter @MrsErikaMileyFacebook.com/sextalkwitherikamiley https://www.youtube.com/user/MrsErikaMiley erikamiley.com erika@erikamiley.com  

Gender Language and How to Do Better with Abby Rolf

I work with a lot of female identified folks.  Your work around sex and context informs that work a lot.  As you have been writing, researching, podcasting, what are your thoughts around how context matters for female identified folks now?    Feminism and 2020?  Tell me a little about how science can help reduce stress?   Feminist informed care for people??  What wellness really is?  How do people find you in the world?    https://www.feministsurvivalproject.com/  emilynagoski.com   @fsp2020 ista         Find me on all the socials!   Instagram @erikamileytherapy  + @sextalkwitherikamileyTwitter @MrsErikaMileyFacebook.com/sextalkwitherikamiley https://www.youtube.com/user/MrsErikaMiley erikamiley.com erika@erikamiley.com  

Sex, Context, and Feminism with Emily Nagoski, PhD

In this episode, we get to talk about what it means to try the "butt stuff" or anal play or anal sex. Foreplay, Masturbation, Penetration, Oh my! Consider the following things: Just like your genitals, learn what feels good, what works for you, and use lubricant. Start slowly! Communicate with your partner! I mentioned lubricants (we have no affiliation setup with these companies!): Yes! Yes! Yes! The partner who is being penetrated MUST be in control! Saying STOP is OK! You have to set ground rules for this experience! Here's some tips: No need for waxing, enemas, or pre-maintenance. Porn isn't real! It's a performance and not sex you would normally have with your partner! Small toys are great to start with! Breath! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review us on iTunes.

Sex! the Podcast : Episode 4 : Butt Stuff 101

Sex and Depression

Being Safe in Our Bodies ft. Shawna Potter

All We Wanna Do is Feel Good in Our Bodies ft. Celine Manning

Seduction Mindfulness and Identities ft. Dr. Jess O'Reilly & Marla Stewart

Therapists and Race ft. Elizabeth McCorvey

Good Enough Sex

What is it Like to Be a Dominatrix? Ft. Queen Ana Algos

Erika gets down with Vanessa Carlisle, PhD! They talk about Vanessa's life journey through the world of sex work up to filling additional roles as a writer, educator, and consultant. They chat about the effects of the Covid-19 pandemic on sex workers, and attempt to de-mystify the subjects surrounding sex-work. Show notes/Full show notes #115

It is Okay to Just Want to F*ck ft. Vanessa Carlile, PhD

Erika and Dr. Rachel Needle, psychologist, certified sex therapist, co-director of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes, and doer of all the things, talk about the importance of being educated about sexual health; especially for those who are in the helping and medical fields. They focus on questions like: What kind of client testimony can give the impression that a therapist wasn’t properly trained in, or hasn’t been exposed to enough, sexual health education? And, what can happen for therapists when they feel inadequate about sex? 

What Should a Therapist Know About Sex? ft. Dr. Rachel Needle

Erika sits down to talk about the state of events in the United States. This is a call to action to stand with our black friends, family, and neighbors. It's time that white people take action to tear down a system of institutionalized racism built by our forefathers, benefited and maintained by white people. Equality has been called for, it's time for us to make it right, fair, and just. Follow black people on socials:  A lot of these are on Instagram but many of these fine folks can be found on all of them.. I prefer IG because Facebook is a crazy ass place right now.  @sexwithashley  @sankofasex  @theminoritysexreport  @heybianyp  @blkwomenshealth  @lexxsexdoc  @theread  @sacinthesheets  @therapyforblackgirls  @akilahh (Akilah Hughes)  @mspackyetti   @sistersofsexuality     Give your money here:  https://blacklivesmatter.com/  https://www.gofundme.com/f/georgefloyd  https://thelovelandfoundation.org/  https://www.joincampaignzero.org/  https://www.cuapb.org/who_we_are  https://fairfight.com/ 

Racism

Mental Health & Sex Therapist Erika Miley explores the different facets of sex and relationships from everyday experiences to what science experts say about sex! Learn about what makes our bodies tick when it comes to our sexuality.