Miscellaneous
What feelings come up for you if you were to reflect on having sex with someone who does not even know your last name or your favorite food, hobby, what makes you laugh or things that you care about ? what would the relationship look like after-is there a relationship? What happens to your emotional and mental health? What would you feel like after that situation? would you feel valued or respected? Does this person offer anything else after they got to know your body? Do you feel empty or do you feel fulfilled or both? Does this person treat you with respect after? Does this person call you after? Do you wake up to good-morning texts or how are you doing texts? Do you receive I want to take you out on date text or does this person ghost? My encouragement to you, is to pay attention to whom you’re getting to know. If you are saving yourself, save yourself and let no one convince you to think or do otherwise. Remember, you train people how to treat you-how they value you. Not everyone have access to me and this does not necessarily mean my body, but my mind, my spirit, my soul. To my listener, I encourage you to place boundaries for your mind, spirit and soul. Not everyone should have access to your soul, mind, and spirit. I encourage you to value your values. Value you. Remember self-love throughout this pursuit, because you will need it when you are tempted. Temptation is another powerful concept and to challenge it, self-love will need to be practiced. You have your own decisions to make, but I hope my stories encouraged something or at least offered another insight. Protect your peace, mind, spirit, and soul. This all apart of your mental health. Guard your mental health and most importantly, your emotional health. I encourage you to check in with yourself and your values. Don’t forget to like, share, subscribe, and follow me on IG at speakingofsunflower. Hope you enjoyed this—there is more to come.. You deserve to be taken out on a date, vacations, receive surprises and flowers! Happy New Yeaar